So what do you think a happiness is?
Are you Happy?
Based on my last blog, according to Bhante Kolitha’s Dhammadesana, he mentioned that Happiness is more permanent compared to pleasure.
Now..for me…Happy and Happiness are 2 different thing.
I’d say….the HAPPY thing changes all the time. It comes and goes just like pleasure.
For e.g. When someone fell in love, s/he is happy. But when they argue with the boyfriend/girlfriend, then s/he is not happy anymore. But once they make-up again, again s/he is happy.
Now..for me….I’m in Happiness state of mind, body and position in my life. I’ve found my happiness in my husband. He has given me this peaceful, ever-glowing happiness from me. Oh yeah…we do argue sometimes. Sometimes he made something that I find it sooo annoying…sometimes I’m the one at fault. When that happen, I wasn’t happy at that moment, but I’m STILL at this Happiness state of feeling deep in me.
I guess, with my happiness state of mind/feeling in me, I always find those little argument I had with hubby (those unhappy little moments) are nothing compared to the BIG Happiness feeling I’m experiencing.
You understand what I’m trying to say here? oh well…I guess i’m just too free to write such non-sense eh???!! hahahaha
Nevertheless, I’m greatful for hubby being my husband and so patient and caring on me. I truly love you…
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